Anyone who has ever literally dating scene will state that rejection is probably the best supply of inertia. More than anxiety about the unexpected, it's setting yourself up to fail and rejection, a whole lot worse, public humiliation that often prevents you from walking as much as the lady of your dreams and displaying that you're her Mr. Right. Hence, you just watch, fantasizing from afar.
Never fear however, for you are not alone. Guys from all-over have been, and dare I only say continue being, within the same predicament. It's no wonder writing self-help books on wooing the main one and being Mr. Right Right-Now remains a best source of income, especially because the desperate amongst us are too willing to shell out a couple of greens as soon as they're off the press. But in reality, there is no one formula that actually works. While perhaps there are basics to really meeting ladies and creating possibilities to open windows leading to the next level, it should continually be borne in your mind that the things that work for Juan doesn't necessarily mean it will work for Tom, Dick or Harry too.
Most fundamental to picking up girls can be summarized into two tips: putting yourself out there and being genuinely interested.
To begin with, begin by putting yourself out there. Some say that the present world population is for us men, i.e., there might be no shortages since in some populations' women outnumber the men. You just need to step out of your little world and explore. Visit places where there are also people. Malls, bookstores, fairs, shows, parks, cafes, bars, gyms, markets, restaurants are places abuzz with women. All these busy places make not only for great venues to meet people and potentially the ideal girl but also give a good backdrop for conversation topics. Once someone catches your skills, smile and say hello. Do that often enough also it should be a breeze to start a conversation.
Second, when you are available, sex should not be the main thing on the mind because this easily shows through. When you meet someone you may seem thinking about, attempt to cultivate rapport. Take sex off the table some time and genuinely attempt to possess a decent conversation. This can take you off sleaze-ball alert and perhaps move you into a safer zone in which the possibilities are endless.
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