Anyone who has ever played the dating scene will state that rejection is perhaps the best supply of inertia. More than fear of the unexpected, it's setting yourself up to fail and rejection, a whole lot worse, public humiliation that usually prevents you from walking as much as the girl you've always dreamt of and displaying that you are her Mr. Right. Hence, you just watch, fantasizing from afar.
Never fear however, for you personally are not alone. Guys from all-over happen to be, and dare I only say continue being, in the same predicament. It's no wonder writing self-help books on wooing the one and being Mr. Right Right-Now remains a best source of income, especially because the desperate amongst us are all too prepared to spend a few greens as soon as they're off the press. But actually, there isn't any one formula that actually works. While perhaps there are basics to really meeting ladies and creating opportunities to keep the windows open resulting in the next level, it will always be borne in mind that what works for Juan doesn't necessarily mean it'll work with Tom, Dick or Harry too.
Most fundamental to obtaining girls could be summarized into two tips: putting yourself too much there and being genuinely interested.
First off, begin by putting yourself out there. Some say that the present world human population is for us men, i.e., there can be no shortages since in some populations' women outnumber the men. You just have to step out of your little world and explore. Go out to places where there are other people. Malls, bookstores, fairs, shows, parks, cafes, bars, gyms, markets, restaurants are places abuzz with females. Each one of these busy places make not only for nice venues to satisfy people and potentially the ideal girl but also provide a good backdrop for conversation topics. Once someone catches your skills, smile and say hello. Do this often enough also it should be a breeze to start a conversation.
Second, when you go available, sex should not be the main topic on the mind as this easily shows through. Whenever you meet someone you might seem thinking about, attempt to cultivate a relationship. Take sex off the table some time and genuinely try to possess a decent conversation. This will get you off sleaze-ball alert and perhaps move you right into a safer zone where the choices endless.
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